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Hayley is a Mum of 2 Robust but amazing boys. She is hoping to be a Mum again soon, addicted to Motherhood. She was lucky enough to find her soul mate, Buster. I know - Buster, weird name eh? Long story, save that for another time. Inbetween colouring, cooking, playing cars, dealing with tantrums, school runs, cleaning, jigsaws and climbing the walls! Hayley can be found on her laptop blogging or squidooing or ebaying (sshh, dont tell Buster about that last one).

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Having Trouble Getting Pregnant – are you stressing?

Are you having trouble getting pregnant and stressing like me? Signs of pregnancy keep occuring month after month but then I am never pregnant. So that’s it! This month I am not taking any notice to any of them. Sore boobs, stomach cramps around implantation time, mucus, feeling sick and any of the others. Bring them on, but I am not listening to them and I would urge you to do the same.

If you are currently having trouble getting pregnant you will know exactly what I am talking about, every month you listen to your body a lot more than you normally would and pick up on the smallest of things – it sends you paranoid! This month I have told my friends who get quizzed by me every month on things like, ‘when did your boobs start hurting?’, ‘when did you start to feel tired?’ etc, to ignore me if I quiz them or just simply tell me to shut up. I refuse to do it to myself anymore. I need to relax, but it’s so hard when you are having trouble getting pregnant, isn’t it?

The first couple of weeks of my cycle I am fine but then by the time the blood test comes around I am starting to stress, whilst at the same time telling myself I am not stressing! Like I said it’s all crazy!

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